You know I was like ehhh that might be a little too hard on him thenVery I Can Show You Some Trash Shirt made the great point that he cheated on his SAHW after she did the job of raising his five kids. Asshole isn’t even the word I’d choose to describe him. If my father were to do this to my mother he would never hear from me again and I’d probably be unable to control my rage if he showed up at the hospital. I love my parents but if one ever hurt the other in this way that would not be anymore. I’m sure they all understood that when they unanimously voted their father out of being able to visit their dying mother.